Counseling

We have left a trail of counselors behind us.....strewn and discarded and ditched. DH saw one alone, we saw one together, we saw another together....2nd one we saw together I am now seeing alone. 2nd guy thinks DH really needs to be in therapy badly...so I asked DH to try new guy, 3rd guy, together figuring that's better than nothing. And why do I care if he has therapy or not, you may ask? Well....because I WOULD like to stay together if it is humanly possible (I realize it probably isn't), and even if we don't I'd like him to be a good father to our children and maybe figuring out why he is hell-bent on destruction would help with that. First appointment was last Monday. Could not have gone better if I'd planned it myself. DH was late (unavoidably detained at work), so I was alone for about 30 minutes. DH showed up. Talked for a while then new guy asked if he wanted to come alone, wanted me to come, did I want to come.... both of us said it's up to him, whatever he thinks is best. He said DH should come alone (which he did on Wed and will go again on Tue) and maybe I'd be brought back in at some point. New guy is very interesting....too much to go into to explain it here, but he is most definitely approaching this from a different angle than the other two counselors we've seen together. He also said that if we end up splitting, which is right now where he kind of sees this heading (gotta appreciate honesty), he'd like to bring us in together a few times to talk about how we can make the divorce as easy as possible on the kids. He talked about the kids A LOT. Told DH that there's very little more heartbreaking for a father than being rejected by a daughter....and he told DH to be assured that the girls will figure it all out.